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Winter news, spring shows, & Music documentaries you don’t want to miss!
Spring! My daffodils and hyacinths are blooming, and I’m now finally free to move about the country. I took more time off the road last winter than usual, and did some necessary catching up that included some procrastinated dental work and physical exams, refinancing my house, and losing 10 pounds! (I now have a whole new wardrobe that I found hanging in the back of my closet.) I also did SEVEN years of taxes. I had sent money in with the extensions I filed so I had no penalties, (and I’m actually getting money BACK!) but what a job it was to do all that paperwork. It’s quite a relief to have it done, and I’m now ready to start going through songs for the next CD.
I’m going to be doing a crowd funding campaign soon to finance the CD. Crowdfunding (in a nutshell) is asking people to buy the CD in advance so that I will have the money to work with an amazing producer this time around. A heavyweight producer means I can get one of the top record promoters interested, and that means chart success and airplay that will allow me to play the big festivals and get an AGENT which I so badly need. The bulk of my time is spent booking myself, and I really need to be writing, recording, and doing social media for my gigs instead. The CD will come out so much faster with someone else producing it too. (My last CD took me 6 years!). I’ll have more info on it in the summer newsletter. Also in the summer newsletter will be info about the wonderful tour I just had in the Northeast.
I didn’t stay home the whole the winter though. In January I headed down to Mississippi and Alabama. I had originally booked the Back Door Coffeehouse show in Hattiesburg, MS because I was going to finally perform my song “J.C.” for the man himself. Sadly, J.C. passed away in early October. I did get to sing it for his son Tony and several of his cousins however, and it was really a lovely show in a great setting. My thanks to David Walker and his wonderful crew of volunteers.
From Hattiesburg I headed over to Birmingham to play the Moonlight again. It’s a great little concert listening room and I’ve played there several times now. Back at home in January I did a “Short Set” at the Family Wash in Nashville. I don’t perform in Nashville nearly often enough, so I had to make it a New Year’s resolution to do so this year. I was supposed to play a couple other shows in town in February but we had a hellacious ice storm and they were both cancelled. Nashville was a skating rink for a week.
In February I played a great return engagement at a house concert in Brownsville (just outside Memphis) on Valentine’s day, then I headed down to Shrevport, LA to play a wonderful series called Shreveport House Concerts. It’s actually held in a recording studio, and both audiences were extremely generous. I had an encore AND standing ovation in Brownsville, followed by an encore in Shreveport. It made driving home in an ice storm worth it. But what a drive that was! I sat PARKED on highway 30 between Texarkana & Little Rock for over an hour. We finally got moving again and an hour west of Memphis I was PARKED on I40. When that cleared up it was getting dark and the roads were turning to black ice so I rented a (gouged) hotel room and crawled home the next day.
In March I headed up to St. Louis to play a house concert. St. Louis has had several “boom” town times. In it’s early days it boomed as the last stop on the Mississippi to sell cotton, a second boom came along with the industrial revolution. As a result of the prosperity, the architecture of the town is fabulous. My house concert was for psychology writer Dr. Deb Carlin, and she was as gracious as her lovely antebellum home.
Well that’s about it for this newsletter. I hope you’ll sign up for the newsletter so you don’t miss the next one!
P.S. Normally I suggest a book to read here, but in the last year I’ve seen some great music documentaries, and I want to make sure you know about them.
Meanwhile in Michigan in 1959, Berry Gordy gathered the best musicians from Detroit’s thriving jazz and blues scene to begin cutting songs for his new record company. Over a fourteen year period they were the heartbeat on “My Girl,” “Bernadette,” I Was Made to Love Her,” and every other hit from Motown’s Detroit era. By the end of their phenomenal run, this unheralded group of musicians who called themselves “the Funk Brothers” had played on more number ones hits than the Beach Boys, the Rolling Stones, Elvis, and the Beatles combined – which makes them the greatest hit machine in the history of popular music.
Located alongside the Tennessee River, Muscle Shoals, Alabama has helped create some of the most important and resonant songs of all time. Overcoming crushing poverty and staggering tragedies, Rick Hall brought black and white together to create music for the generations. He is responsible for creating the “Muscle Shoals sound” and The Swampers, the house band at FAME Studios that eventually left to start its own successful studio known as Muscle Shoals Sound. Gregg Allman and others bear witness to Muscle Shoals’ magnetism, mystery and why it remains influential today. From Greg Allman to Aretha Franklin and the Rolling Stones, everyone wanted to cut there
The best known of these music documentaries to come out lately is 20 Feet From Stardom. You may already seen it? I particularly related to the joys and sorrows in the lives of these singers, having had a couple of boyfriends who thought I should be their backup singer rather than take center stage. (No one who became famous incidentally!) These are the most important BG voices in the biz, singing for Bruce Springsteen, Stevie Wonder and Mick Jagger (remember “rape… murder… it’s just a shot away” – that background vocal pretty much MADE that song a hit.
For you folk fans, I suggest “GREENWICH VILLAGE: MUSIC THAT DEFINED A GENERATION”. Narrated by Kris Kristofferson and Susan Sarandon, this film is about how the folk scene all started. It’s the real deal, not an “Inside llewyn Davis” pretend job. Inverviews with James Taylor, Judy Collins, Carly Simon, Pete Seeger, etc.
My father was a young man of 23 and just married at the end of the great depression. Times were tough, and money hard won. My grandfather, who was an alcoholic, came to my dad saying that he had a job in Seattle if he could just borrow the money for the bus ticket. My dad gave him the money, but a few days later dad heard from friends that they had seen his father rolling down (literally) the streets of Tacoma drunk on the money for the bus ticket. Dad was furious. Two days later Grandpa Ole showed up at my parents house still drunk and wanting more money. My mother, a new bride and a naïve farm girl from North Dakota was frightened of him, and instead of inviting grandpa in said she would go get dad. To this Grandpa slurred “aren’t you gonna invite me in you little bitch”. My dad heard him. Mother said all she could see coming from the living room was daddy’s fist. He knocked grandpa backwards off the porch and when Grandpa stumbled to his feet he said “That’s a fine way to treat your father. You’ll never see me again!”. No one ever saw him again. We don’t even know where he ended up or how he died.
Forty years later I was performing at a fair in northern CA and staying at my parents ranch. I got back to the ranch, and thirsty after a day spent in 103 degree heat, I made my way to the fridge where I found an open can of soda and took a big swig. It was mostly vodka. My father by this time had inherited his fathers disease and had just gotten out of an alcohol abuse program, and that evening he was bragging to us about how well he was doing sober. Now it was my turn to be furious. I grabbed the can of soda out of the fridge, and slammed it down on the kitchen table yelling “then what the hell is this?” Dad bolted up out of his chair and out of the door saying (verbatim) “That’s a fine way to treat your father. You’ll never see me again!”. My mother turned to me and said “Word for word!” Dad was back later that night, but any good therapist will tell you that the family drama is either handed back (therapy) or passed on. The bible will tell you that the “sins of the fathers are revisited on the third and fourth generations”. However you say it, the damage is usually multi-generational.
When I think of the psychological damage done to children growing up with an alcoholic parent I cannot help but think of how much more damaged the child of a slave would have been. Even if you somehow escaped physical and sexual abuse, to have been sold away from the security and comfort of your parents, deprived of your culture and traditions and even your family name would be debilitating for generations to come. Yet in 150 years, only three or four generations, black Americans have come to excell in all areas of our culture, and even to occupy the highest office in the land. That isn’t just amazing, it is heroic.
I can’t believe that I never read Uncle Tom’s Cabin until now. It should’ve been insisted on in my childhood, and not just because of it’s political importance. This book by Harriet Beecher Stowe is an incredible piece of literature written at a time when women were certainly not taken seriously as writers. I am amazed by her ability to write equally well from the perspective of not only the slaves, but also from the perspective of both the kind and cruel slaveowners. It is no surprise that this book was so intrumental in the abolition of slavery. If you have never read it, it is time you do. If you read it as a child it is time to read it with your “grownup’s eyes”. It is available for free as an audio book from the app “Audiobooks”. Look for this icon:
“Ellen Foster” by Kaye Gibbons
It’s funny to talk about a book by bringing up a movie but I think seeing the movie Philomena made me want to read this book again. It’s one of the books that I read when I first joined my book club but it has stayed with me as one of the most memorable books I’ve ever read. It’s the story of a young girl who loses her momma, and is left to the care of a late stage, abusive alcoholic father. What is riveting about it though, is there is no trace of “victim” in the girl’s persona. She tries to get taken in by her aunts and grandmother who refuse her, but when her situation becomes dangerous and she is rescued by someone who cares for her, the state disallows the adoption and gives her to her grandmother who didn’t want her to begin with. Unable to be with people who genuinely want her, Ellen takes matters into her own hands and sets about finding a home for herself. Reading this book I felt broken-hearted about this adorable little orphan and wanted to adopt her myself, but I also felt proud as a parent when she picked herself up and moved on. The courage and moxie of this child will put a tear in your eye, but at the same time lift your heart. Gibbons won two literary awards for Ellen Foster, the Sue Kaufman Prize for First Fiction and a citation from the Ernest Hemingway Foundation.
If you don’t like to read, or don’t have time (this is a short read however) “Ellen Foster” was also made into a movie by Hallmark, and Ellen was delightfully portrayed by Jenna Malone. I was able to rent a DVD of it from my library. On a side note, (and I haven’t seen it), there’s a TV show called “the Fosters” on ABC with similar stories. They probably got the idea for the show from this book.
Facts about homeless Teens…
1. There are approximately 1.7 million homeless teens in the U.S.
2. 39 percent of the homeless population is young people under 18.
3. About 75 percent of homeless teens use drugs or alcohol as a means to self
medicate, to deal with the traumatic experiences and abuse they face.
4. 5,000 young people die every year because of assault, illness, or suicide
while on the street.
5. A U.S. Department of Health and Human Services study found that 46
percent of homeless youth left their home because of physical abuse.
17 percent because of sexual abuse.
6. Approximately 40 percent of homeless teens identify as Lesbian, Gay, or
7. Over 50 percent of young people in shelters and on the streets report that
their parents told them to leave or knew they were leaving and didn’t care.
8. The average age a teen becomes homeless is 14.7 years.
9. 1 in 7 young people between the ages of 10 and 18 will run away.
10. Teens age 12 to 17 are more likely to become homeless than adults.
11. The HIV rates for homeless young people are 2 to 10 times higher than
reported rates for other samples of adolescents in the U.S.
Winter of the World by Ken Follett
At the beginning of this century, I made several trips to Lithuania for my church. I wanted to start an Alateen program over there, which i finally did, though i have no idea if it still continues. On my first trip over we visited a place called The Ninth Fort. it was a concentration camp created during World War II where thousands lost their lives. I won’t get into talking about The Ninth Fort here, because I could fill a whole blog with that, but I mention it because ever since being there I have been confounded by how much time, energy, and expense went into the creation of the fort and the transport of all of those people packed into boxcars. Just to kill them. It was an industry unto itself, and viewing it (once I had gotten numb to the horror of it) I couldn’t understand why the Nazis didn’t just take their victims out in the forest and shoot them. How much quicker and less expensive that would’ve been.
Until I read this book.
In the century trilogy by Ken Follett there is an English family, an American family, a Russian family, and a German family. The first book, “Fall Of Giants” takes place around World War I. (I highly recommend this first book for Downton Abbey fans by the way). “Winter of the World”, the second book, takes place during World War II. This is the first book I have ever read that attempts to give the reader a view of World War II through the eyes of several different countries. Raised as I was with the American prejudice and view of what transpired, I’m embarrassed to say I’ve never given the European experience of the war much thought. This book had me thinking about it a lot. The hardships of the English family during the blitz, the frozen Russian soldiers trying to save their fledgling communist government in the chaos of advancing Germany, the American political tightrope going into the war, and the impact of fascism on the German citizen would all individually make for a great read. Combined they are riveting.
For me what was most incredible about this book however, was its ability to create an awareness for me of my own prejudice. Growing up in post WWII America, my view of the German people was formed in the back seat of an old sedan at the drive-in movies. It was an impression of a people that were cold and insensitive. It hasn’t at all jived with my experience touring Germany, where I found the German people to be warm, hospitable, and very generous. I see now, that It was not only hard for the Nazis to kill the Jews without demonizing them first, it was hard for we Americans to go to war against the Germans without demonizing them. I grew up lumping the German people (of the 40s not my contemporaries because of course racism is always selective) in with the Nazi government. While I certainly was aware of how fearful the Germans had to have been living under a fascist regime, I never gave them enough credit. The Nazis built those concentration camps because if they had marched innocent people off into the forest and shot them, the German people would’ve risen up and toppled their own government. This book isn’t just a page turner, it’s an eye-opener.